First Parish Bridgewater is a Welcoming Congregation

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At our annual meeting on June 3, 2001, First Parish Bridgewater voted overwhelmingly to become a Welcoming Congregation, affirming our commitment to welcoming gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender people in our community, and to advocating on their/our behalf.

This page was originally built as part of the educational process in becoming a Welcoming Congregation. It will be modified to reflect new events and opportunities related to this ongoing process.

History

In 1987 the Unitarian Universalist Association established the Common Vision Planning Committee. This committee found many negative attitudes, deep prejudices, and profound ignorance about bisexual, gay, lesbian and transgender (b/g/l/t) people, which resulted in the exclusion of these people from their churches.

As a result of these findings, the delegates of the 1989 UUA General Assembly voted overwhelmingly to initiate the Welcoming Congregation program to educate its members. Each congregation adapts the program to best meet its goals and each unique situation can bring positive changes to individuals and congregations.

What is the "Welcoming Congregation" Program?

This program consists of a series of workshops developed by the UUA for congregations that see a need to become more inclusive towards bisexual, gay, lesbian, and transgender people. The goal is to reduce prejudice by increasing understanding and acceptance among people of different sexual orientations. Some of the workshop titles include:

Commitments of a Welcoming Congregation

A Welcoming Congregation is inclusive and expressive of the concerns of b/g/l/t persons at every level of congregational life – in worship, in program, and in social occasions, welcoming not only their presence but the unique gifts and particularities of their lives as well.

A Welcoming Congregation does not assume anyone's affectional/sexual orientation and/or gender identity. Vocabulary of worship reflects this perception; worship celebrates diversity by inclusivity of language and content.

A Welcoming Congregation engages in outreach into the b/g/l/t  communities, both through its advertising and by actively supporting other b/g/l/t affirmative groups.

A Welcoming Congregation offers congregational and ministerial support for services of union and memorial services for b/g/l/t persons, and celebrations of evolving definitions of family.

A Welcoming Congregation Celebrates the lives of all people and welcomes same-sex couples, recognizing their committed relationships, and equally affirms displays of caring and affection without regard to sexual/affectional orientation.

A Welcoming Congregation seeks to nurture ongoing dialogue between people of different affectional/sexual orientations and gender identifications, and to create deeper trust and sharing.

A Welcoming Congregation affirms and celebrates b/g/l/t issues and history during the church year.

A Welcoming Congregation attends to legislative developments and works to promote justice, freedom, and equality in the larger society.

A Welcoming Congregation speaks out when the rights of bisexual, gay, lesbian and transgender people are at stake.

A Welcoming Congregation celebrates the lives of all people and their ways of expressing their love for each other.

Why?

Confronting our prejudices in a non-judgmental, non-threatening group allows us to explore their origins and offers as opportunity to replace those prejudices with knowledge. Understanding our prejudices lead to individual spiritual growth and congregational unity.

Only when we are truly open to the wealth of diversity in our world will the inherent worth and dignity of every person be affirmed with a large voice.
 

Some of this material is quoted directly from a publication of the Unitarian Universalist Association's Office of Bisexual, Gay, Lesbian, and Transgender Concerns .
For links to other web sites about issues related to sexual orientation and gender identity, please visit the Pride Page of James Hayes-Bohanan, a member of our Welcoming Congregation Task Force.
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